And my children don’t understand that. *sigh* I feel like I have been in a charge of a daycare center all day long. I think it was only the 5 min. after I got up from my afternoon nap and before I went to get Paul that I wasn’t surrounded with Paul and/or Hannah at all times. If you have been or are a mom, you know what I mean. If you aren’t, then, here it is.
Every couple minutes bending down to the floor, or squatting down on your haunches to tend to someone with short stature. (I never dreamed I would be this limber. A class in gymnastics couldn’t do better than having two tiny children to condition my body to fold up like a pretzel, and even stay in that position for lengths of time.)
Every single time you want to take a step, the walking toddler is standing/sitting/or lying exactly where you are going to put your foot.
At least 1/4 of the time you go to back up (away from the sink, etc.) as soon as you start, you realize your toddler is grabbing you around the knees to give you a hug.
As soon as you start feeding one, the other one decides he wants a drink at that very moment (and he has to wait).
Every single task, and I mean every single one, has the help of a not-quite-two-year-old. That includes washing dishes, making bread, sewing, chopping vegetables, feeding Hannah. And Paul has started talking and he says, so sweetly and excitedly “Help Mommy!”. How can I refuse him? (But sometimes I do–twice today I told him he was not helping me wash dishes. I did let him help me wash dishes for a long time this morning.)
Conversing with a just-starting-to-talk toddler nearly constantly. If he hasn’t initiated something (by asking a question) then it isn’t long before you need to give some instruction.
Changing diapers, wiping behinds, putting on shoes, putting on coats, pulling up sleeves, pulling down sleeves, and bathing bodies.
Always doing the most pressing thing at the moment, which is usually getting the next meal ready. We start fixing lunch as soon as breakfast is finished. We start fixing supper almost as soon as we get up from our naps. That means less pressing things don’t get any attention–like watering plants, paying the bills, sewing on the bean bag chair…
And that’s why I say I have things to do! I am running the washing machine like mad this evening because I am behind on the laundry. I hope to get it all washed so I can get it hung out tomorrow–hopefully before 2:00 p.m.
I wasn’t going to post on my blog until I got the bean bag chair finished that I want to give Paul on his birthday. I was going to work on it a lot the beginning of this week. Well, ha, ha. Any spare time and energy for Monday was used to go to the fabric store 15 min. from our house and get some yellow fur for the Winnie the Pooh I want to applique on the bean bag chair. It must have taken us an hour to do 15 min. of shopping.
There were no carts. The door was self-closing (which means you have to try to hold it open with your foot while you work a stroller over the bump and a short-legged person through without getting anyone pinched in the door. Fortunately for the trip in, a sales lady came and held the door for us.). The aisles and displays were close together. I was pushing Hannah in the stroller with one hand, and holding Paul’s hand with the other. I would get one item in a hand, then alternately shove on the stroller or let go of Paul for a moment or two as we made our way to the counter. I would put down the thread, or zipper, or whatever I had, then we would go search and secure another item, and juggle our way back to the counter where our pile was. The entire time Paul was very excitedly exclaiming and asking about all the beautiful things he saw. I was answering his questions constantly.
Monday, after Paul’s nap and until bedtime, he cried nearly constantly. I decided to take him to the doctor’s the next morning. They have a walk-in clinic from 8-9:30. I called Julia and she agreed to meet me there to keep Hannah in the waiting room while I took Paul to see the dr. He was so cheerful and happy Tues. morning it would have been easy not to go. But, he had been acting this way (crying in the evenings, happy in the mornings) for a while, and it was just getting worse and worse. It turns out he has an ear infection in his left ear. So, now we are giving him Tylenol regularly (it really helped to stop the crying and fussing) and he is taking an antibiotic. So, there was all spare time and energy for Tuesday.
So, not much progress on the bean bag chair. Here are a few pictures from this week so far.
Paul helping me make pancakes on Pancake Morning.
We were making a bunch to re-stock the freezer.


We made Pineapple Up-side Down cake
to take to our pastor’s house for supper
on Wednesday evening. They had invited
us for supper, and we brought the dessert.
Paul helped make it, and he enjoyed licking
the beaters afterwards.


Hannah was very intently sucking her toes
this evening. Now that it is cooler and she has
socks and shoes on most of the time, she doesn’t
get very many opportunities to do it.


And now, you have go to see the piece that is in danger of turning my husband into a moron. Even Paul is in danger of it to. It was a birthday present (to Andrew) from Andrew’s sister Wendy.

It is sand enclosed in glass, and the sand is different colors. You flip it over and over and watch the sand drift through cracks in the bars and make designs and colors. I went downstairs one evening, and Andrew was watching that thing, then flipping it, watching it, flipping it, watching it, and then he began to give it little shakes and move it around, and finally I asked him what he was doing. It turns out the sand had formed a little bridge at one of the breaks in the bars and wasn’t flowing through and he was trying to get all the sand to flow through at that particular break. (!!!!) To what benefit! I called him Jon Arbuckle, who watches the red sock in the dryer for entertainment. (Wendy, do you have one of those things at your desk? Just don’t let your boss walk by while you are trying to adjust the sand art! They might send you to the psychiatrist.)